Love Spells

For Love and Relationships

Because of all the mistakes I made while using Voodoo to draw my heart’s desire (HD) ever closer to me, I think it’s really important to go into the pitfalls of love spells so I can hopefully help you avoid them. These mistakes delayed my progress so much more than it had to be delayed; my impatience, anger, frustration and overall defiance of the rules of the love spell work threw everything out of kilter.  In fact, I messed things up so badly, I had to do the trio of love spells a second time (the very best place to get the love spells, the ones I used, is from the www.spellmaker.com website because all of the ingredients are consecrated by the mambo of that site, making them that much more powerful.  The fragrance of the spell kits from this site are absolutely delightful as well.  It almost sets the atmosphere for magic (at least it did for me).

Ok, here are some of the mistakes I made when trying to cast an effective love spell on my HD.  I’m hoping you will learn from them and avoid going through what I did as a result of my foolishness.

1.     When you’ve performed a love spell, do not try to rush things (probably the biggest mistake I made, in fact.)  You see, when you cast a love spell, it is not uncommon for the target of your spell work to get a huge rush of feelings for you.  Although this may sound wonderful, what happens most of the time is that your HD will probably become overwhelmed with his or her feelings for you.  It can be very scary and, more often than not, they tend to back away from you temporarily to try and process (sort out) the stronger feelings they’re being hit with for you.  I tried to push the issue by calling and/or mailing him to get him to contact me.  The result?  He backed away even more because he was already feeling afraid, confused and overwhelmed by his newer and stronger feelings.  I wound up having to do the love spells all over again because my confrontation had totally messed up whatever progress I might have made.  Try to remember, you know why your HD is feeling stronger love feelings for you but he or she doesn’t.  No matter how much you may miss your HD, do not make contact while the spellwork is in the air!  It is truly a prescription for disaster!

2.       Do not confront your HD in any way at all; that means calls, cards, emails, text messages, letters -  nothing, nothing at all.  I know how hard it is when you’re missing that special someone with all your heart but confronting him or her will only make it worse, will only delay the progress of the spell work you’re doing.  After the mistake I made with the first spell kit, I learned to pull out the Red Mummy candle or my Voodoo Doll and have a session with them  instead when I was feeling anxious because my HD lapsed  (which he did often under the influence of my spell work).  The messages got through and it wasn’t a physical confrontation.  Also, the more I used them, the more powerful and effective they became.  I’d also use the white male image candles during those times to reassure and soothe him of his fears, the fears that were causing him to stay away.  If you’re doing spell work on your HD and you’re feeling that you can’t bear the wait any longer, please contact me and I’ll help you through it like my caseworker did for me back at the time.  I will always be here to respond to your emails (within a few hours, in fact), whenever you need it. (Many were the times I felt anxious and frustrated)

3.       Don’t show anger in any way to your HD or to the ingredients of the spell that you’re working with. Throwing your love doll across the room because you’re so mad your HD hasn’t contacted you yet does nothing to assist the progress of your spell work. I distinctly remember writing a very aggressive letter to my HD because he hadn’t gotten in touch with me for a week or two.  The only thing that I accomplished was hurting his feelings and causing him to back away from me that much more.   Again, do not confront your HD when spell work is in the air!

4.       Keep self-defeating thoughts out of your mind like “This isn’t working”, He or she isn’t responding” , I don’t have the power to be able to make this happen”, etc.  They become self-fulfilling prophecies and you certainly don’t want that.  Know that the LWA are working hard on your behalf.  I learned my HD’s lapses were actually a good thing because while he was away, he processed the messages I was sending him in my spell work and when he returned, he was that much more secure in his feelings for me.

These are just some of the pitfalls I hope this information will help you avoid.  They only delay the progress of your work and that’s the last thing you’d ever want.  Anytime you’re feeling uncertain or anxious, use the contact me link of my home page and I will help walk you through it.  Sometimes, just a little bit of support goes a long way.